Relationships are a lot like bridges a lot goes into construction and maintenance, but not a lot is need for total annihilation. The faster you understand it the better it is for you. Negligence and carelessness extended over a period of time can end your marriage without any hope for revival. Study the following points carefully given below and take steps before it is too late and slips out of hand.
Leaving your wife alone in the marriage is the quickest and the surest way to destroy your relationship with her. After marriage the word ‘I’ is replaced by ‘we’. While women easily grasp the concept, the men have a difficult time doing so. Spending too much time with friends, prioritizing work before wife, running errands without prior planning, needless drinking and gambling all these things create a rift between the man and wife. The rift forms fissures and soon before you realize you will be places apart. Isolation and deprivation are women’ greatest fears and if forced into it they will seek a way out.
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2. Avoiding intimacy
By intimacy I do not mean making love. Making love is a part of intimacy but not intimacy itself. Bodily pleasures have limitations and when restricted only to it, it creates hallowed vacancy which only worsens with time for women. Women need emotional bonding, mutual reciprocation and soul connection. So do not only attend to her only when you need your pipes cleaned. Being emotionally unavailable and purposely distant breaks her heart. So try to be attentive towards her, spend time together, engage in foreplay and compliment her (a woman never tires being complimented by the man she loves).
3. Always pointing out faults
Your wife sees you as her strength. She will share her burdens and divide her responsibilities with you. You are her motivation and her protection. So if you continuously finding faults with her, rectify her constantly, stay seemingly unpleased with her, it is bound to push her into a state of trepidation. Helpless and devastated, she will creep into a shell of defense from where return would be impossible.
4. Holding on to your ego
Seldom has it played to your advantage and definitely not in the case of marriages. Mistakes are unavoidable in marriages, but what promotes a simple mistake to a big understanding is holding on to your ego. Just because you are a man, doesn’t mean you can’t step down and let go. Resisting the necessary ‘sorries’ only create tension in marriages. Often men see it as a gesture of weakness, hence they hesitate to act accordingly, but in doing so they actually bringing forth their cowardice. Gradually a point will come when the pending ‘sorries’ will inflict sorrow upon you and the only thing you will be left with is regret.
5. Tending to Infidelity
Infidelity end relationships, I am sure you are no stranger to this concept. But do not ignore the secondary killers of marriages. Eyeing curves in front of your wife, passing flirtatious comment at other girls with your wife as witness, taking her insecurity too lightly, teasing her when clearly she is not appreciating it, cracking humiliating jokes upon her in front of your friends: all these are characteristics tending to infidelity and they are equally harmful in nature.
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6. Putting a display of bitterness and anger
Getting lost in bitterness and anger is putting the final nail in the coffin of your marriage. Especially in the 21st Century it is no way to find love but lose it. Taking out your work frustration on her, getting angry frequently about monetary issues, shouting and misbehaving with her in times of crisis all these will almost surely end your relationship. So take care and act wisely.